Neil's tribute from the funeral
2020 July 23
Created by Helen 3 years ago
Mum was taken from us too soon but she had lived as full a
life as anyone can - everything she did, she did with enthusiasm
whether in her professional or personal life. She never hesitated to
help a friend in need. She had a quickness and common
sense which enabled her to always know how to deal with a situation.
She was passionate about education and the welfare of children and she
wouldn’t tolerate poor standards - she was relentless in her dedication
to making things better. She commanded respect
effortlessly and gave respect to everyone around her. But she could be
a fierce opponent. She once approached Neil Kinnock the then leader of
the opposition, who happened to be in the same restaurant as us, to ask
to discuss his education policy and the performance
of her local MP. He tried his best to argue but his wife ended up
joining in agreement with mum.
When she was with her family and friends she was the life and soul.
She loved laughing and joking. She had a naughty side - she wanted
children to have that spark of mischief that makes them misbehave and
talk back. She never lost this quality herself.
Not many people know this but in her younger years she took a flexible
interpretation of the Highway Code when she was in a hurry. She could
talk her way into places or out of trouble, always with a smile. Her
positivity and enthusiasm were infectious and
disarming.
But above all she was our mum - like Dad, she was relentlessly
loving and supportive. She pushed us to be the best we could be in our
academic lives but outside of that she spent every day trying to spoil
and indulge us. And we got to see her do this
all over again for her grandchildren and this provided some of our most
precious memories of her. She couldn’t have been a better mother or
grandmother. Dad, Helen and I will miss her.